Dear Abby: I have a leg dating a boy from time to time for the past seven years. “Giorgio” is a wonderful person and will do almost anything for me. The problems are that you do not have much to sacrifice, and the conversations too much. He shares a lot of our private business for family and friends, especially his mother.
She will ask several questions about me and make sarcastic comments in return. I have spoken with him more than once, this, in vain. Giorgio knows that I don’t want it, but I can’t get rid of him. Any advice that can give me would be much appreciated. – Seven years old in Georgia
Estimated seven -year -old items: If he is aware of the sarcastic comments that Giorgio’s mother has been doing, it must be due to the fact that Giorgio has transmitted them. (Doesn’t you have a brain at all?) Your attitude on you would be red your relationship with your child, even if you choose to continue it.
I don’t know why you can’t get rid of Giorgio, but try this: say that it is no longer because to see it and not because being friends. Unless you do, the message won bet. If you persist, warn that if you do not leave, you will present a police report because at that time what you are doing is considered harassment. Then do it, if necessary.
Dear Abby: My husband retired three weeks ago, and he has gone crazy since then. I am a night owl, and he knows him since we 10 years ago. Today, he told me that he would play with an old friend tomorrow at 8:30 am to a 45 -minute course and needed to get up at 6 am
I asked him if he could be very calm in the morning and use the visits to shower so that he would not wake me up an hour before. Hustically put his Tawel and his shampoo in the guest shower, he ordered his easy chair and dropped strongly. When I asked him what was wrong, Hey said he was upset because he couldn’t take his shower in our normal bath. I said Yo I was upset that would make me miss an hour or drag before working for an eight -hour day. He said: “I’m sorry, you’re upset, but I’m retired, and things are changing!”
I never waited for him to get up before in retirement. Are you asking too much that my routine and my sleep schedule are not interrupted as long ashes? Am Are you still working? After that, everything goes, but I still need the structure. – Thrown in Massachusetts
Dear launched: I will assume that your marriage has happy bone so far, and that generally implies commitment. I do not think that his request for him to take a guest room so that he can remain in his sleep schedule was too much. I wonder why I would say “things are changing” unilaterally. Could the unquestionable authority miss his previous work? I ask about the tone in which he said what he did. If you decide to punish you for asking you to give you in the guest room in the morning when you have a golf game, suggest that you will sleep in the guest room on those nights.
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