A millionaire from Los Angeles has defended his decision to remain free of children, revealing that he has benefited his mental health and says: “I can take a nap when I want.”
Amie Tollesfrud, 36, says she never felt maternal when she was growing: she was interested in holding babies or voluntarily for children’s care.
When she with her now husband, Erik Tollesfrud, 42, about 20, said: “If you want children, find some to do it, I am likely not the person for you.”
Althegh, the couple, returns to visit their children free of children every few years, Amie is still resolved.
She says they have reaped the “benefits” of not having children: they can sleep, travel and spend time together, without having to deal with “strong noises or a messy house.”
The online business course tutor was criticized when a Tiktok is published on March 19 using a sound that said: “Imagine returning home of a stressful day at work and there is someone at home asking what we are eating for dinner,” of women who live women, “” “” “” “” “” “” “” “” ”
But he insists that he does not “really care what is more” and focuses on building his own “legacy.”
She said: “One of the ways in which I do not believe that people think is how much my mental health has benefited. They easily overestimulate me for things like how strong noises or the messy house. They sing an impact on my mental, and they have a healing that has a healing. Hental thale to San Thale Hental to San Thale Hental a San Thale Hental to San Thale Hental SAN THALE HENTAL A SAN THALE A SAN THALE A TUA DE SAN
“I want to wake up when I choose, travel when I want and nap when I want. Obviously, you can do it when you have children. I have always valued my freedom and autonomy to live how I want to see what I want.”
Amie with her husband lasted her time at Colorado State University when they were 20 and 26, respectively.
At that time, Erik, now a photographer, was working on retail trade and left his job to support Amie’s business.
Before meeting Erik, Amie had thought a lot about motherhood. It only became a topic of conversation when she with Erik because he was older. When she arose, she told him in advance that she was not interested in having children.
She remembered to tell Erik: “I told her that I am very young, so I will probably change my mind because everyone tells me that I will do it, but I don’t think I want them.” She also added: “If that changes for you and want to find some who want children, feel free … I am likely not the person for you.”
At first, Erik needed time to process Amie’s revelation, but he possible decided that she would prefer to prioritize her relationship with her than to have children. “We are both on the same page. Maybe let’s change my mind, but we will visit this again every year or so.”
As it passes every year and the decision to be free of children remains intact, the couple reaps the ‘benefits’ of not having children.
“I have the freedom to travel wherever it is; I have freedom in my agenda, but also only having more money to spend things is fun like traveling, but also going to the spa or going to dinner,” he said.
Unlike some, Amie’s friendships and relationships with her broader family have not been affected by her decision to remain free of children.
“I think most of the time I tell people that I don’t want children, they think it’s great to know me well enough to make that decision,” he added.
However, Amie has faced a violent reaction online of followers for her lifestyle.
A commentator wrote: “Imagine being old and alone and not having anyone who loves you unconditionally, some sad wild things in high -end old age, money has limits.” Another said: “Imagine fearing any responsibility or more molding.”
AMIE considers that obsessive comments on your life choices are strange. “If you want children, then go and take them, I am happy for you. I really don’t care what anyone else does. I think we should all be able to live in our truth and respect the choices of others.”
He has also faced questions about how his legacy will see without children: “I am focused on building my own legacy, why would that pressure on another other thing put that pressure?”
After Amie’s Tiktok went viral, she found a community of thousands of people who agreed with her.
She was “amazing” upon discovering that others felt the same.
“He is an unfortunate child, it is almost like a situation of losing for women,” he said.
“If you choose not to have children, then it is a negative stigma attached to that, it is selfish. Likewise, if you choose to have children and be a mother who stays at home, then she is wrong with her monkey.
Amie and Erik have spent the last three summers traveling in Europe, visiting places like Paris, St. Tropez and Sicily. “One of the least obvious things that I really value is that my husband and I have a leg capable of focusing on each other and building a solid relationship and marorda.”
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AMIE’s typical children’s free day in life:
Most of the mornings, I don’t have an alarm, I wake up when I wake up.
I love having a slow morning. Usually, I had breakfast outside and drink coffee.
Then I will go to a class of Pilates or Yoga or will walk.
I will return home and do a little work: film some videos for Tiktok or YouTube. I have usually finished working at 1 or 2 pm.
Then I’ll go shopping with a friend or go to the spa. Sometimes I just take a nap!
At night, my husband and I will walk towards the beach with the dog and see the sunset.
Then I will cook the dinner and see reality shows, I love anything related to the brave, especially the real housewives!
